Overcome Comparison & Feel Good Enough

It is very natural to compare ourselves to other people, & to feel like we’re left out as an outsider somehow. Feelings like this… “I’m not enough” or “Nobody wants me” or “I’m unlovable” are all related to core fears that we ALL experience as humans. On a primal level, we can’t survive if we’re separated from our tribe, so these feelings & fears developed to keep us safe on a very basic level. They’re actually worth celebrating. They have good intentions. Still, you deserve to feel good enough right now, & your happiness & success depend on it. You’re unique, & you offer something to the world that no-one else does.

There’s not another person on this Earth who’s exactly like you, so there’s really no use comparing. We’re all on our own individual path, and every single one of us is an essential part of the whole, even when we’re only a small part of the picture. On that note, this week’s Tuesday Musings offers some suggestions you can use to overcome comparison & start feeling good enough right now. I’ll be back with more on July 11th, talking about the first component of mental wholeness – Acceptance. Make sure to leave a comment below & tell me what you think! Thanks for watching.

Seeing Your Ideas Through When the Excitement & New-ness Fades

Generating ideas & moving forward on the best of the bunch can be a really fun & exciting process, especially in the beginning stages – but big picture ideas often take YEARS to see through, and it doesn’t take long for new-ness to fade & challenges to come into the picture.

Developing some stamina & stick-to-it-iveness can do wonders for your self-esteem & the level of success & achievement you feel while you work towards your goals.

In today’s video, I share a few strategies to help you do just that. Next week we’ll be musing about allowing completion in your life, including some strategies to feel complete all along so you can achieve big things with smooth-sailing & enjoyment of your creative process.

Using Experiments to Gain More Control

I remember being shocked when I realized how small of a finding makes something statistically significant. It’s rare to hear research mention 100% certain findings – which tells me that very little in this world is true 100% of the time. We don’t always fit in with the findings, so it can be really fun & useful to conduct our own experiments… to see what works for us based on our own observations & findings.

Through the process of inspired experimentation, we can learn so much about ourselves, our loved ones, and anything else we want to know about. It’s easy to feel super empowered when we see the tangible differences in our lives that come from our own decisions, actions, & internal changes. Happy experimenting!! Leave a comment & let me know what you think.

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